It's been a tumultuous few years.  Both my parents passed away three and four years ago, my mom had hit 90 and my dad passed a year later would have hit 89 had he lasted to the end of the year.  My wife has a disease classed as cancer that is going to force an early retirement and we'll have to move off the mountain as high-altitude greatly increases the risk of stroke.  So right now is kinda rough, and probably will be for the next year or so, then hopefully it'll smooth out for a while.