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lydy ([personal profile] lydy) wrote2015-10-02 10:21 am
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Eleven Parts Cats, One Part Mimosa: Life is good

Neil recent commented snarkily that my posts were eleven parts cats and one part mimosa, and that life is boring. And so, today being Friday, I am drinking many, many mimosas, and petting Lady Jane Grey.

Lady Jane has gone almost a week without biting or clawing me. I am very happy. She is much, much fatter than she was. She has a positively rotund belly. I am hoping this does not mean that she is pregnant. She does have a lump on her back, a little below the shoulder blades. I am planning on taking her in to see the vet next week, so I will ask him to look at that. I don't know what it is. Hopefully, nothing bad.

She continues to be ever so sweet. She has a marvelous purr, and has become extremely fluffy. She also now has the energy and muscle tone to rocket about when she wants to. Which she does.

She caught a mouse the other day. Which she then carefully put on the couch, since that is where she gets petting and attention. Pamela has steam-cleaned the place where the mouse was lain. I didn't get to see it, it happened while I was at work.

She seems to have slowed down a bit on eating kibble, though she is still polishing off a can of wet food a day. She has also stopped growling at her food, and at people too close to her food. I think that she's getting the idea that there will be more where that came from. She remains companionable, but not a lap cat. She likes to sit next to me, but not on me. Which is sad, I really like lap cats.

On the mimosa front, I can say that Freixenet Cava is better than Cooks Extra Dry. DDB and I are planning on going to see The Martian tonight, so I have to go to bed in time to get up. Which means that I will not be able to finish the bottle before I go to bed.

As for my life being boring, Neil: so what? I have good books, good friends, good lovers, good cats, good drugs, and a sufficiency of income. It is calm and stable, and generally happy. At my age, that's really quite nice. I doubt that it would have been quite the thing in my twenties, but I'm not that young, anymore. And this, this life? I am very pleased with it. Do I miss the incredibly highs of my earlier years? Only a little. Because I paid for them with black misery. I'm old, I'm boring. So sue me.

Life, life is good. Also, eleven parts cats, one part mimosa.

[identity profile] judith-dascoyne.livejournal.com 2015-10-02 04:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations.
Boring is good. Very good.
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[personal profile] redbird 2015-10-02 05:50 pm (UTC)(link)
It doesn't matter whether other people think your life is boring, as long as you're not bored. Life is good, and if Neil wants to read about exciting adventures because he's not having enough of his own, I'm sure he can find a library or bookstore.

I occasionally wish for more excitement in my own life, but at the same time: like you, I have good lovers, we know how to be good together, and I don't care if someone else thinks "Adrian will be spending Thanksgiving with me and Cattitude, and I wonder if we'll forget to take out the cranberry relish again" isn't an interesting story.
Edited 2015-10-02 17:50 (UTC)
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[personal profile] pameladean 2015-10-02 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Besides, the recent discussion of codes of conduct was hardly boring. Not that the cats and mimosas are boring either. And I completely endorse contentment over drama. Completely.

I noticed the lump on Lady Jane's back and figured that you had too. It's convenient that she needs to go back to the vet anyway.

P.

[identity profile] iraunink.livejournal.com 2015-10-07 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Having recently had excitement in my life, I agree that boring is the best kind of life to have.